Tuesday, April 29th

Posted: 04-29-2025

Neuro made their rounds this morning and shared some thoughts on Botox. It’s something they’ll sometimes use to combat tone and help relax tight muscles, but in Dallas’ case, they’re leaning away from it. Apparently, in rare situations, it can spark an autoimmune response — not something we’re keen to roll the dice on. Plus, she’s not terribly tight right now. You can get her loosened up, and she still seems to have full range of motion.  So for now, we’re shelving Botox.

Speech came by and brought a little cold water and a tiny spoon. Dallas had some good swallows with it, though there was a bit of coughing. She even wrapped her lips around the spoon and moved the water around in her mouth — a lot of coordination involved in that – a small win towards progress. We also did some dry spoon practice, just the motions without liquid, to get her more used to the movements. The plan over the next day or two is to practice with the spoon dome more. Simple stuff, but very meaningful.

Rounding team said they’ll be swapping out her NG tube — it’s been 30 days and time for a fresh one. Heather asked about a G-tube, but Dr. Coletti (who I continue to really like) said she wants to give Dallas a little more time on the NG before making that call. That sounded great to me.

Tomorrow will be the last round of PLEX (plasma exchange). After that, they’ll begin administering IVIG and Tocilizumab infusions again. The hope is that the PLEX will have cleared the way for the two infusions to be more effective afterwards.

The team is adjusting her Gabapentin dose a bit, trying to find that sweet spot — helping dial down the potential for getting startled, without making her too drowsy or foggy. Since she’s slowly becoming more awake/alert, it’s a balancing act, like so many things right now.

PT & OT were back in today. Dallas still seems to have strong feelings about them — wasn’t her favorite part of the day yesterday either. Her respirations go up, and her expression says it all. It’s hard to see, but also… it’s something. It’s a response. She’s showing more of herself. There were also small but important moments: some intentional neck movements on her own, a bit more self-initiation in adjusting. They brought in a mirror, so she could see herself, but ran the idea by us first. It can be tough thing to see the first time — tubes, IVs, hospital setting, etc. — but she seemed ok with it.

We had a sweet visit from Troy, Kathy, and Kim, who drove up from Wilmington to see us. We were able to sit outside in the courtyard with them for a bit. The weather was great, and it was good to breathe in some more of that fresh air.

Papa’s in town for a few days and is on night duty tonight. We’ve briefed him on all “the things” we do to keep the unnecessary checks, housekeeping, etc. OUT, so that Dallas can rest. We’re grateful for him being here with us and tagging in. Having support, especially at night so that we can catch up on sleep, is a game changer.

We’ll close today with our eyes on tomorrow’s PLEX — the final one — and with hope in what comes next. IVIG. Tocilizumab. And… more healing!

“There’s a grace in the waiting, a quiet hope in the not-yet.” — Morgan Harper Nichols


10 Comments

  1. Grace harte says:

    Wow sounds like the team is excellent in working together with the best plan forward. May her poppa and Dallas get a restful sleep. Hope the plex treatments increase the success of the future infusions.
    Sending gentle hugs and kisses.
    Aunt Grace and family.

  2. Katherine Neville says:

    We were so excited to see Dallas’s beautiful blue eyes today. We saw a huge change since our last visit and for that we are so grateful. Love you all and God bless you with tremendous healing.

  3. Kate kitchen says:

    I just think of how she’s so fortunate to be blessed having such involved parents. Brilliant that the medical team can respond so positively to you both. You are so open but so good on communicating what Dallas truly needs! Well done, Mommy and Daddy!!!

  4. Emily Donovan says:

    Praying regularly for Team Dallas. She’s got that fighting spirit—kind of like some other amazing ppl we know. 😉

  5. Patti Allen says:

    What a wonderful team Dallas has!! I love reading the progress she’s making!!💝
    I hope today is another great day!! Continued prayers for all of you!!
    Much love!!!🤗

    💞🙏💞🙏💞🙏💞

  6. Riley Norris says:

    So glad you chose to hold off on the Botox; sounds like you’re able to keep her loose so just keep doing that! Tell her we’re all cheering her on during the day and praying for her by night. It’s the small things that add up to big things. Let us know if you need or want anything, we’re here 🙏❤️

  7. Birty and Jim Lightner says:

    There are so many wonderful people to help, but I’m glad you all have control and last say. So many times, that is not true. Dallas is so blessed to have you and Heather to advocate for her. I’m keeping all in my prayers.

  8. Debbie White says:

    Continued prayers for your sweet Dallas and both of you!

  9. Leesa Hilty says:

    Important Baby steps… My heart and prayers go out to you and little sweet Dallas 🙏🏻❤️

  10. Tina Best says:

    Continued Prayers for Dallas🙏

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